Self tennis???

Hey guys, my brother is a beginner just starting out. Unfortunately, we don't have the money at the moment to afford a private coach. he is holding out for a tennis class at the local recreation centre.
I know that self learning tennis is pretty tough but I realise plenty of people on this board taught themselves how to learn tennis. I'm just wondering if you guys have any tips to offer on the self learning tennis front?

If you have a library near you, there would be a lot of books to look at. You obviously have access to the internet. Tons and tons of sites with free advice. http://www.TennisTeacher.com
http://www.FuzzyYellowBalls.com
http://www.OperationDoubles.com singles info too
Go to YouTube and watch the pros play.
You can download a bunch of free tennis pod casts to your iTunes as well.

Shaunx do you play yourself?How old are you and yu brother?To self teach go on sites and read books on techiniques.Theres a good site with plenty of teaching videos with bolleterri in it.The site is www.tennistorrents.com and also www.tennischannel.com.Theres also for footwork www.thebailymethod.com.
Good Luck!

Alot of people I talk to refuse to learn with out a coach or a program. I really dont understand it, they are surprised that I taught myself and am a pretty decent player for only playing two summers. I am a 3.5 player right now with a little bit of an inconstancy on serves. It seems like the more tired I am, the higher percent my first serve is.

Hi Shunx;
It all depends on what your brother wants to do with his tennis. If he is trying to play tennis for fun or high school tennis, reading tennis books and watching tennis videos can help him accomplish his goal. But if he is planning to take his tennis to a higher level it’s very important that he learns every thing properly from the beginning, since kicking a bad habit and fixing a bad technique will be more costly later on. I know how costly this sport is and my heart goes for struggling and unprivileged kids. Tennis like golf is the sport of rich and wealthy.

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Originally Posted by Tennisteen

Hi Shunx;
It all depends on what your brother wants to do with his tennis. If he is trying to play tennis for fun or high school tennis, reading tennis books and watching tennis videos can help him accomplish his goal. But if he is planning to take his tennis to a higher level it’s very important that he learns every thing properly from the beginning, since kicking a bad habit and fixing a bad technique will be more costly later on. I know how costly this sport is and my heart goes for struggling and unprivileged kids. Tennis like golf is the sport of rich and wealthy.

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We have 6 more to go TT, and btw, I'm impressed that you were able to secure that great User Name. It seems so obvious that most would have guessed it couldn't possibly be available. I suppose you proved everything is worth a try right ???

Cheers,
Coach

There are literally hundreds of thousands of very highly qualified tennis players even here in the US that achieved great levels without formal training. When you break down what a Coach provides, you begin to realize much of their assistance can be obtained in many forms.

What I generally do during practice sessions is pay strict attention to the 3Fs
Form Footwork & Focus. Of course, it's not really that simple because if someone lacks in those areas, they aspect you to correct them. Many Professional Player on the Tour today, started with their parents training them until they were able to gain a ITP Ranking. The Road is as long or short as one makes it. If you have a parent that understands the game, they can be a very good partner for you.

I can not stress this any better than to mention Mr. Williams who taught his daughters and Jennifer Capriati, who's father was her first Coach. Steffi Graf's father played a huge part in her early development. The list goes on & on and partly due to the high cost of Professional trainers. But it is also important to understand that you can get your feet in the door by entering National Tournaments which have Open Formats and should you do well, the USTA will then assist you with grants that will get you into an Academy such as the IMG Academy run by my friend Nick Bollettieri.

Yes when you factor the cost of travel, accommodations, food, court time, gear i.e racquets, strings, shoes, etc. It adds up rather quickly. But you don't have to be a millionaire to achieve this.

There are (13) Tier IV & (18) Tier III Tournaments played each year. Problem is, of the 13 Tier IV Tournaments, only one is played in the USA and of the 18 Tier III Events, only two are played in the USA. So Travel therefore becomes a serious issue especially if you can't travel alone or wish not to. This is when only one parent makes the decision to travel and you are always looking at the possibility of losing in the early rounds.

In the US, we also have Challenger Events that one can qualify for. You can obtain a listing of these events to get your name in early and when I say early, I mean early. You must realize that there are many others bidding for the few qualifying stops they have available. Should you be lucky enough to grab one of the few qualifying spots, do your best to get through to the main draw. Should you get into the main draw and if you are a good player, you could easily find yourself making it to at least the 2nd Rd providing the Tournament allows Byes for the Top Seeds, meaning you won't have to play the top seeds in the opening rounds.

Then you have Pro by route of NCAA Sanctioned Tournaments but I'm gathering we're talking about those of you who aren't in College. Yes, Tennis is expensive but it's not out of reach as one of my good friends here believes. You have to have certain amounts of luck fall in your favor. Once you've proven yourself worthy by obtaining a ITP Ranking, getting a financial sponsor is extremely easy from that point. But beware of those bearing gifts. Or as they say, "The Devil's in the details"
DO NOT ACCEPT FINANCIAL SUPPORT FROM A SPONSOR WITHOUT A CONTRACT AND AN ATTORNEY.
Unless you wish to chance getting burnt.

Shaunx, I grew up playing tennis without formal lessons. I don't think I achieved nearly the heights I might had I been given the opportunity to train with a professional. That said, I'm a pretty good player and I now teach tennis as a career. Here's my advice for your brother:

1. Watch as much professional tennis as possible. It is amazing how much you can learn, simply by watching the world's best.

2. Read up on the sport: Use the internet, the library, get a subscription to Tennis magazine, etc. You cannot get enough information.

3. Hang out at the public courts. Make friends and play anyone and everyone who will give you some time on the court. Also, be on the lookout for any free (or practically free) clinics given at these public courts. The USTA does this every so often, so you need to jump on them.

4. Find a local club and find out if they have any affordable clinics available. While you're there, find out if they have any opportunities for families of meager incomes-- you never know. One of the things that I want to do for our club is establish something like this.

5. The Wall is your friend. I spent countless hours downstairs in our unfinished basement banging tennis balls off the wall. Now, almost all the public courts feature one of these. While it is a bit boring, it can work wonders on your technique.

All i can say is i played for 10 yr without instruction and, wish i had had coaching.
As others have said youtube,books, other free internet sites provide free help.
Group lessons are usually provided by most coaches and are cheap.
I just received Oscar Wegners dvds for $100.00 and, after only watching the first dvd woud be happy to recomend them to anyone

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Originally Posted by haretrigger

All i can say is i played for 10 yr without instruction and, wish i had had coaching.
As others have said youtube,books, other free internet sites provide free help.
Group lessons are usually provided by most coaches and are cheap.
I just received Oscar Wegners dvds for $100.00 and, after only watching the first dvd woud be happy to recomend them to anyone

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I would just like to add that taping yourself can do wonders for your form. To sit back and see what you're doing good or not so good.

I was in a band that played Nationally. We had a manager and the works. We regularly played in front of a wall length mirror to see how we appeared to the audience. It's all about the show, our manager would constantly say to us. Well seeing ourselves, how we stood, what our bodies were doing while we played was tremendously helpful. I personally noticed something I did while playing that I corrected immediately but wouldn't have, had I not watched myself.

No matter what you have to suppliment professional help in your brother's game. It is much easier to learn the proper techniques the first time then have to change bad habits later.

I suggest you should check out your parks and recreation program. I know that here in Naples, Florida our Parks Program is run by a long time certified USPTA Professional and the cost for the classes are next to nothing. The other great thing about P&R Programsis that the instructors are motivated to make you a better player and they do it for the passion and not the money.

Make sure you ask your instructor for homework to help improve your skills. Despite some of the comments earlier, tennis is an inexpensive game. You get a racquet from Wal-Mart and a couple of bucks for balls and your off to the public park or local high school where courts are usually plentiful and free. Use this to practice your serve ... use the wall to work on consistency but remember to practice smart by getting a bit of professional instruction to point you on your way to start.

Mike Burge
USPTA Master Professional
www.dynamicdoubles.com

if you cannot afford coaching but are serious about becoming a great player you need know how in high performance technique (nothing to do with beginners technique), fitness development, mental, tactical development;

have a look at:

http://tennistrainingsystems.net

it's all there and has been used successfully to develop top professionals

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Originally Posted by shaunx

Hey guys, my brother is a beginner just starting out. Unfortunately, we don't have the money at the moment to afford a private coach. he is holding out for a tennis class at the local recreation centre.
I know that self learning tennis is pretty tough but I realise plenty of people on this board taught themselves how to learn tennis. I'm just wondering if you guys have any tips to offer on the self learning tennis front?

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Please do yourself a favor and go to www.tennisteacher.com and click on "online lessons", read through and view the tips and Intro video, and sign up for Oscar Wegner's free newsletter BEFORE you buy any other books, DVDs or sign up for tennis lessons. Thousands and thousands of people have started out in tennis, taught their kids or made improvements in their own game with Oscar's method. If you can afford it I recommend buying his DVDs to study for years to come. For the price of 2 private lessons you can get his entire set of DVDs and book. I know people who have original VHS copies of his videos that they still use as reference. If you PM me I will explain how to get into his Online Academy. Although Oscar's method works for pro players as well, it is by far the simplest, most effective way for beginners to learn to play well immediately and love the game right from the start! I was taught the conventional way, paid lots of money for lessons and didn't progress. Once I discovered Oscar's DVDs and book I was able to quickly "unlearn" faulty techniques and my game improved vastly, increasing my enjoyment of the sport tremendously. Plus, Oscar is very accessible and if you have a question about his method you can simply call him and talk to him personally - he'll be glad to answer your questions and offer his assistance.

Today, there are far more ways to learn tennis correctly without a coach. The internet has several sites that offer a wealth of information, from high speed video clips to instructional articles, to equipment info and fitness.

However, as mentioned by another, if you try to learn the game without any feedback or clear understanding, you will certainly learn to get the ball over the net, but I guarantee that you will stagnate at the 3.0 or 3.5 levels for life.

It is interesting to see people say that they did it themselves and are playing at the 3.5 level now after several years. While this might be construed as success, see where they are in five years. Usually it doesn't take a reasonable person with adaquate skills to get to the 3.5 level in as little as 6 to 8 months with ample hitting opportunities. However, in two or three years, a player, an adult especially, should be able to get to the 4.0 level with proper training.

The problem is, those methods that lead to higher skill levels don't feel comfortable or familiar to most starting out...thus, they avoid them and take on easier methods that feel "right" or "Natural" and, unfortunately, gain rudementary success with such methods thus ingraining the method as feeling like the right way to go. Yet, this is the very receipe for failure in reaching any player's potential.

Read my book TENNIS MASTERY or my newest one, COACHING MASTERY for details on these issues.

Also, take a look at TennisOne.com for a more objective look at learning tennis. It will give you the insights to more than a dozen top-rated teaching pros who have trained thousands of top level players.

I still doing self tennis. I taught myself how to play tennis from videos on youtube and a book called Tennis for dummies so just keep practicing and you will be good. I still working on my serve but practice make perfect

I taught myself but the hardest thing I found was improving my backhand... The only way I found that helps is hitting the ball off a wall with just your backhand.... I found reading was the worst cause when I tried what I red I made more mistakes since I was thinking too much on the shot rather then playen my way...

There is a group of social players that play Sundays at the courts i play at. I have been going there for 19 yrs. What i can tell you is these people hit the same exact way as they did 19 yrs ago without an ounce of improvement. You can play forever but progress wont come without changing bad habits and practice

Could it be they are getting OLDER and always play social tennis?

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Originally Posted by haretrigger

There is a group of social players that play Sundays at the courts i play at. I have been going there for 19 yrs. What i can tell you is these people hit the same exact way as they did 19 yrs ago without an ounce of improvement. You can play forever but progress wont come without changing bad habits and practice

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Well I certainly understand your position HT and to some degree I agree with your assessment however there is something to be said about consistency. If you play Tennis for 19 yrs whether good or bad, you will, if nothing else, be consistent in your approach.

I was rated 4 times during my years and as a Training Instructor, once. In my Prime, when I could play back to back 5 Set Matches, in my estimation, I was probably a 5.0 to 5.5 Level Player. I can say without hesitation that I could hit any shot a Professional Level Player could hit and I have always had confidence in my Service Delivery to get me out of trouble when down 0-30 or 0-40.

I'm fairly certain many of you can say the same but what defines us from the Pros, is consistency at the highest level of play. So if you need a reason to tip your hat for those Self-Taughters, you can give them consistency.

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Originally Posted by 10s1

The problem is, those methods that lead to higher skill levels don't feel comfortable or familiar to most starting out...thus, they avoid them and take on easier methods that feel "right" or "Natural" and, unfortunately, gain rudementary success with such methods thus ingraining the method as feeling like the right way to go. Yet, this is the very receipe for failure in reaching any player's potential.

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Could you explain what "easier methods" that feel "natural" you are referring to? I would like to know specifically which method(s) you feel are a "recipe for failure" so I can avoid it(them). Thanks.

I've spoken volumes to many kids about how they can improve without the benefit of coaching. For instance, we must consider that the body naturally makes adjustments. If you are a new Tennis Enthusiast and find that your forehand shots tends to sail over the fence or into the net each time you strike a forehand shot, you will instinctively alter your shot each time the ball approaches your forehand even if you aren't quite certain as to what will give you the results you are hoping for.

Now I must also include that this is intended for the serious Player. The person who truly wants to be a competitive player someday. I've seen it not only in myself but in others as well.

One of my personal favorite methods is watching the Pros on TV or DVD. Not only are you getting the benefit of seeing a Player hit a shot but how they construct a point as well. One of my favorite Players to analyze was Andre Agassi. And if you're watching on DVD where you can manipulate the screen action, such as rewind & slow play, you get the benefit of viewing a bevy of information like pre-ball contact footwork, how far does he player pull back their racquet before contact, where are their eyes at point of contact with the ball, the follow-through, foot position after contact and this isn't just during a groundstroke rally but in every aspect of play including the serve most importantly. Because a Player's serve tell much about the Player.

Do they serve to start the point or do they use their serve as a prominent part of their attack? Or are you watching the Returner? As you can tell, watching the very people touted as the best in the World, I feel there is no better coach if you are coachless and actually, in conjunction with a coach for those who have one.

I've used Video as a tool with tremendous success on my kids. I know it works because there have been times, Ive seen over-night improvement in some. I had a kid (Josh) last year who felt Sampras' Serve was the best in the business. He especially liked the fact that Pete never felt he would get broken if his serve was on. Josh and I would sit in the Trailer and watch how Pete constructed his service toss & follow-through and then we would go out and practice it with me as the returner. My intension was to simple get the ball back in different places for him to deal with, like I would return the ball to his feet when he wanted to Serve & Volley or I would crowd the center line forcing him to serve out-wide.

Josh solidified his place on the Team as a Starter and Josh was only 5' 9" tall.
But most of the success he gained I had little to do with. It is his dedication to watching Sampras on Video that helped him firm up his confidence.

I just learned from watching other people and practicing

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Originally Posted by GavinC360

I just learned from watching other people and practicing

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Of course we tend to watch others but how do you know if who you are watching has adequate form? Do you decide by the results they are achieving ?

One other question, do you hit against the Wall and if so, does the Wall you use have a Net line?

Before you answer please understand that my response does not mean watching others is not good. I make no predictions on what you can gain from that. I learned a lot about Tennis from playing, getting advice from people I trusted and watching the Pros. I received a very comfortable level of striking the ball long before I sought professional instruction and to be quite honest, the only reason I received professional instruction at all was when I decided to help out at our Community Summer Tennis Camp.

In joining the USTA as an Instructor, they have a program for Coaches to learn various techniques for training. In other words, you learn how to teach even if you think you already have that down, you'd be surprised at how different it is from basically giving advice to actually teaching people how to play the Game.

Some Key Elements in Tennis:

1. Footwork
* Keeping your balance in check at point of ball contact.
* Transferring your weigh to generate power on ball contact.
* Appropriate use of the Split Step [When & How] to use it.
* Using the balls of your feet as opposed to standing flat-footed

2. Watching the Ball
* Hand - Eye coordination is crucial
* Taking note of where the Ball is not where it's going
* Increasing your ability to Track a ball enhances better preparation
* Aids in developing a more consistent Serve

3. Follow Through
* Essential in Ball Control [Direction & Velocity]
* Absolute key for controlling and/or generating Top Spin

4. Back Swing
* Provides assistance in controlling Return of Serve

I started tennis when I was 4.
I started tennis LESSONS when I was 5.
And I will tell you self teaching tennis to yourself is a good thing. (:
Teaching myself the basic tennis skills was difficult but here are some things which I did;
If you have a brick wall throw the ball at the wall and play out a rally.
This doesn't make your 100% better but it helps the arms and a lot of the muscles which need developing for tennis.
I was too young to read about tennis, so what I did was walked to the local tennis courts and watch the older players. Then I would go home and copy the things they did. It sounds lame but trust me it helped A LOT.
These are just some basic physical improvement tips to follow.
Hope it helped. (:

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Originally Posted by Robyna

I started tennis when I was 4.
I started tennis LESSONS when I was 5.
And I will tell you self teaching tennis to yourself is a good thing. (:
Teaching myself the basic tennis skills was difficult but here are some things which I did;
If you have a brick wall throw the ball at the wall and play out a rally.
This doesn't make your 100% better but it helps the arms and a lot of the muscles which need developing for tennis.
I was too young to read about tennis, so what I did was walked to the local tennis courts and watch the older players. Then I would go home and copy the things they did. It sounds lame but trust me it helped A LOT.
These are just some basic physical improvement tips to follow.
Hope it helped. (:

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So are you telling us that at 5 yrs of age, your Guardians allowed you to walk alone to the Tennis Courts and at that age you were astute enough to emulate what you committed to memory?

Well regardless of your skill level, that alone was impressive enough and dangerous to be quite honest.

As for the Wall technique, there are a number of Drills one can utilize to increase your ability that even hitting with a partner isn't as good as.

If you stand close, you can drill your Volley ability. You can drill Overheads by hitting the ball down to the ground first forcing the ball the strike the back wall and pronounce high in the air so you can practice overheads. This technique is actually easy & fun but you'll need to hit the ball several times until you adjust how hard to hit it.

You can drill Serve & Volleys as well by serving against the Wall and following it in. I highly recommend that if the Wall you're hitting against doesn't have a NetLine, you will need to draw one. It is important you do this because if you intend to use the Wall often, you don't want to drill shots that would land either too high or too low into the Net upon real play.

*Note*
When drawing your Netline, don't forget to calculate the low section of the Net in contrast to the higher sections located at the Net Post. The proper height is 36" (inches) at the Center Strap and 42" (inches) at the Net Post.

Thank you Robyna for your contribution. It is always welcomed :)

Coach

Happy to contribute. (:
I didn't go alone, my mom or dad usually came.
Basically what I did was copy what they did while watching them a few times then go home and try my best to copy it.
It wasn't too hard and at the time the important thing was that I was learning the basic ground strokes.

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Originally Posted by Focused

Could you explain what "easier methods" that feel "natural" you are referring to? I would like to know specifically which method(s) you feel are a "recipe for failure" so I can avoid it(them). Thanks.

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Sorry for such a delay...missed this question!

The "easier methods" are typically the following situations in learning, (although, there are exceptions and others I don't include because of time and space.)


1. Hitting flat. Most beginners don't understand the concept of spin, nor do they understand how to execute a stroke to hit with spin correctly. Most beginners who know nothing about tennis will hit with linear strokes, trying to hit balls very flat.

2. Grips: Most beginners will avoid the continental grip on volleys and serves. (Which is why most authors and pros cop out and say "the beginner player may use the eastern grips--or their groundstroke grip--to learn to serve and volley...it is easier [read: less frustrating] than learning with the proper grip." Then almost all books then say, "Advanced players use the continental grip for the serve and volley." My question to anyone: WHY START USING SOMETHING THE MUST CHANGE LATER?

3. Drill: Most beginners are introduced to tennis by hitting a ball dropped or tossed to them. This is the worst way to learn to play SKILLED tennis because the student--of any age--will do what they PERCEIVE to be the way to hit the ball to a given target. They are not conscious nor do they focus on developing a particular swing path. Develop the desired SWING PATH first, then work on aim and timing and then movement.

4. Footwork: One of the problems many pros have is they stress movement to a ball before the stroke is developed. Again, like #3, if a player has not established a reliable, familiar and consistent swing pattern, then footwork is meaningless. They can get to the ball, but they won't have any control in hitting the ball. This is not to say that footwork is not important. But, this aspect should be developed in stages: 1st, swing mechanics; 2nd, footwork with the stroke, (closed, neutral and open...ALL THREE need to be taught, not just one...all pros and skilled players use all three!); 3rd, footwork in getting to the ball; 4th, reationary footwork, speed, agility, first step, (including gravity steps, cross-over steps, jab steps), as well as recovery steps, (brake steps, reverse pivot steps, etc.); 5th, situational shots as well as combination shots; 6th, developing stamina in long-ralley situations where the stroke and footwork patterns don't break down.

There are many other aspects to learning correctly or avoiding disasterous methods. This is why my book COACHING MASTERY was written! 400+ pages to define everything about teaching tennis and coaching. (I'm not trying to plug my book here...just pointing out that it is very difficult to offer everything in 400 pages here in a few paragraphs!)

I used to go to a "tennis academy",which gave group lessons for a few hours for exorbitant prices at a private school's indoor courts. But after about 2 months or so I quit. I was and still am very much into tennis, and have a far off aspiration of becoming a succesful pro. The coach basically ran the clock, didn't give a damn about peoples technique, and had 2 college kids take a group of about 20 kids to 2 outdoor courts, let each kid hit about 10 balls in 2 hours, and all this in November in upstate ny. To round it off, he charged 40$ for it.

I then tried fyb, and my technique improved in a matter of days.
I was sick with H1N1, so I was out of school, and so all I did was perfect my groundstrokes. I made my forehand's backswing smaller, switched grips ... got all this instruction for free, and I started playing a hell of a lot better.

Proffesional instruction is great, but only when the teacher is good. Most of the time, the coaches are just freaks.

Coach, you mention earlier in this thread that tier 4 events are mostly out of the US, but don't certain events offer hospitality?

Also, to anyone here, how many years of practice do you think a kid should have before playing tournaments?
I know some of the really good russians practiced for about 2-3 years, and then started competition.
Your thoughts?

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Also, to anyone here, how many years of practice do you think a kid should have before playing tournaments?
I know some of the really good russians practiced for about 2-3 years, and then started competition.
Your thoughts?

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It depends when the kid can compete without resorting to less effective or "safe" technique.

Too many players play specifically to "win" early on, and in the process, resort to simple or rudementary 'pushing' or other means to beat a particular opponent.

I recommend players work on their strokes for six months to a year, (depending on age) before going into tournament competition. That doesn't mean they can't play practice points, matches or other competititve situations, (you can create a number of competitive or pressure situations without tournament play).

While many will disagree with me, my experience (35 years teaching beginners to world-ranked players), but I've found that those who are pushed into competition early tend to develop very questionable habits and stroke mechanics because they are focused on winnning and not improving.

I enjoyed reading 03white and 10s1, some great observations from 2 very different perspectives! As a student 03 you nailed it that lessons are only as good as the coach and his approach to teaching. Self-discovery is apparently a fundamental aspect of tennis for players and coaches alike.

10s1 speaks as a highly qualified, experienced coach and explains very well some of the pitfalls of certain techniques of learning and teaching tennis. Regarding the point of "easy" and "natural" stylels, I would observe that nothing is easy when it is unfamiliar. When my grandson balks at learning something new or expresses disappointment when not being instantly proficient at a new task I remind him that at one time he could not talk, walk read or write, and that makes him laugh and approach his new endeavor more optimistically. And so it is with new players who may seek ways of playing tennis that seem familiar, such as hitting a "baseball" swing, or coaches who believe they must first teach a a beginner to hit one way then later change his technique to hit a different way. Observation shows us, however, that it is much more difficult to "unlearn" than to learn something for the first time. That first impression and effort is critical to eventual positive outcome, so it behooves a coach to start every student out with fundamentals that will remain constant throughout his progression.

I would like to make one other distinction between styles which may yeild success or failure, and that is the concept that tennis itself is complicated and difficult vs. easy and natural. Once the initial effort of tackling this new skill of finding the ball, making contact and guiding it over the net within the boundaries is achieved, IF THE FUNDAMENTAL TEACHING STYLE IS SIMPLE THE STUDENT WILL FIND IT RELATIVELY EASY TO PERFORM SUCCESSFULLY. From this point on, with patient, consistent guidance based on a gradient scale of learning the coach can move the student through progressions of increasing ability which will seem more easy than difficult.

If a coach cannot achieve this with his students, he needs to take a hard look at his methodology.

Regarding when to start competing, note that Richard Williams did not allow Venus and Serena to compete early in ther training or place them in competitive situations in which they were likely to fail. When they did start competing they were ready. My coach discourages aspiring players to jump into the competitive arena prematurely, rather counseling parents to be patient and allow the player to prepare until consistency and confidence have been sufficiently developed. Many parents are eager for their children to taste success early on and are disappointed when victory is not achieved. This erodes the player's confidence, whether it is expressed or not, and causes setbacks for both player and coach. Parents need to be sensitive to the recommendations of the coach and the readiness (or lack of) in the player, realizing that longterm success is more likely with adequate physical and mental preparation

Thanks, 03 and 10s1 for insightful posts.

It is possible to learn tennis by yourself. I learnt 90% of my current technique by watching the pros. It just came naturally and I could see immediately how their balance, swingpath, footwork etc. helped them execute each shot. If you learn easily from watching then its quite easy to learn that way. If not, then use some of the dvds and books that people suggest